Last fall, Sarah and I got to watch Rocco (junior) and Giovanni (freshman) take the field together for the first time. After all these years coaching and parenting, this one just felt special. “There’s a difference between honoring where you come from and being bound by it.”  This night felt like honoring. As I approach my 53rd birthday, I find myself seeing the world with more clarity and optimism than ever before. I only wish it had always felt this way. In the summer of 20